M.Khairul
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It may have come as a bit of a shock to you to discover that you were actually encouraging your bullies to continue making fun of you. Please don't feel bad about this. What has been happening to you is really not your fault. You had no way of knowing what was really going on. And the truth is that the same thing goes on in any relationship where people are constantly driving each other crazy. Whether its parents and children, husbands and wives, or brothers and sisters who are always fighting with each other, they are always making the same mistake. They don't realize that by getting mad, they are pushing the other person to do the very thing that they can't stand. So don't blame yourself. It's not your fault.
Anyway, I would not have risked making you feel bad if I did not also know how to make you feel much, much better. You will feel much better once you use the secret to stopping your teasers, Simple method to making the teasing stop. All it takes is a change of attitude. What I mean is that you only have to change the way you think about the teasing. Everything else will automatically follow after you correct your attitude.
Until now, your attitude has been, "Oh, no! They're making fun of me! I have to make them stop!" But this is the wrong attitude. This attitude is what has caused the problem to exist in the first place. The only reason you have been getting teased is that you were hurt by the teasing and thought you have to make it stop. From now on --and you only have to do it for one week to see if it works -- your new attitude will be, "If they want to tease me, it's perfectly OK. They can do it all day long and it doesn't bother me in the least."
You are to do absolutely nothing to make your tormentors stop teasing you. Do not tell them to stop. Do not call them names back. Do not tell the teacher on them. Do not tell your parents or their parents. Even don’t tell your best friend on them.
When someone was shohel bhay(chokkor) as a paharadar of para and he made more fun by shouting for it. then one of his friends who is full in SOH. He was asked amader paray rate onek kukur gheu gheu kore rate ghumate pari na. kuttagulor ay jantronar hat theke bachanor jonno ki amader paray pahara deben?
Takhon tar ki bola, ki kora uchit bole apni mone koren tweety begum? se sekhan theke chole ashbo naki fight korbe? Naki complex e vugbe? Doya kore take ki bolben? Se to nijey lojja peye sey jayga serese. Ey sara j tar kisuy korar silo na..
Sorry tomar khichuri jodi ektu nasto hoy pls a,mare dosh dio na.. radhte thako..
Amar tinti Rajkonna.. Jori, Pori R Tara.. Amar Jakhon kono kisute khub kosto lage eder mukher dike takale sob kosto dur hoye jay.. Mone hoi jeno ora amar sobkostogulo akashe uriye niye jasse.. R oder mayer naam Tulonaheena.. Se dur Akashe miliye giyese..Thak se sekhaney..Ami besh bhalo achi..
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