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**Shuchi**
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"যেও না সাথী...চলেছো একালা কোথায়......পথ খুজে পাবে নাকো শুধু একা"
এসো না বন্ধু হাতে হাত রেখে দুজনে,
মোদের পরিবারকে সাজাই যতনে ।
এযে মোদের গর্ব,কেউ এসেছে মোদের ঘরে,
হোকসে পাখি অন্য কোন বোলের ।
এসো নাগো সুন্দরী !!
মোদের ভাষায় তাঁকে আপ্যায়ন করি ।
আমি যদি করে থাকি কোন ভুল,
ক্ষেমা কর প্রেয়সী !কিনে দেব ডায়মন্ডের দুল !
যদি তুমি ক্ষমা করো ,হবে তুমি অনন্যা
বইয়ে দেব প্রিয়া,শুধুই তোহার লাগি ,
অঢেল ভালবাসার বন্যা !!
এসো না প্রিয়ে ধরি শক্ত করি হাত দুজনা !!!
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Re:Tweety's Corner....khichuri - 2008/07/12 14:47 |
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farhan
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Bravo Tweety ...........not some people, infact most people works with hands only few works with brain .....you know who are working with brains ?? BUDHDHIJIBIs........
.ha ha ha ...hey tweety do ypu fall in that cat ?? your write ups are always brilliant .thanx and regards
Farhan ...remember me ??  [size=4][/size]
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Re:Tweety's Corner....khichuri - 2008/07/14 08:28 |
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Benefit and Loss Of a Relationship…!!!
There are all kinds of ‘syndrome’ around. The one familiar to all is ‘down’s syndrome’.
But that supposed to be a genetic disorder.
Now, I read about a most nonsensical syndrome calling it,’Asperger’s Syndrome’.
That is ‘An inability to read people’s faces and an inability to understand how people are receiving you based on the facial expressions’!
Now, there is a disconnect here.
How on earth this can become a syndrome?
Its surely seems like a concocted one.
How is it possible to understand somebody by reading face?
My friend was upset when I wasn’t contactable for a few days. Bcoz I was feeling low on some personal matters.
Finally when got connected I told my excuse.
It made her upset as why I don’t share all my problems to feel a li’l better? What’s the use of friendship if no shoulder available to cry.
All that blah blah n blah.
I told,I don’t make a friendship heavy with burden of shared miseries, that’s not my cup of tea.
I prefer to share the good n fun zones only.
She told,’then go n write all about such craps in bdbangla where you belong virtually!’
Even suggested me the ‘title’,that I am using now…lolllll.
What she told out of bad mood to bang my ego, I am really writing it about now.
She is right. Her bickerings gave me an instant idea…from one’s mouth to another’s brain…what a neurological pathway!!! Sometimes we utter words unwillingly,not meaning a thing.
But,that can upset the other party with other meanings too.
Can we really measure what we talk out every time?
It’s not possible.
And, it’s impossible to fathom the Bond of friendship that is ‘selfless’.
Love has many forms…but, there’s no symbol for an undying eternal bond of friendship.
It dies when there is an expectation.
So, do we also call it a ‘syndrome’ when we feign to forget our responsibility to friends…when we don’t have a proof to suffer from Alzheimer’s…?
Yah…we need a name for it.
Remember, we need 3 reasons to make a ‘syndrome’.
People need both to make sense of Life’s vagaries & contradictions!
It’s called ‘Toxic Shock Syndrome’, when politicians fail to keep promise made before election, instead,shock the nation with fightings n bickering among themselves.
Politics in family is as same.
The best way to negate something is to just avoid the situation.
Bcoz, doing the same things over n over,and expecting different results become the definition of insanity!
So, again…Lab, or Kitchen…which is the way to go?
If a relationship becomes a burden that is too stressful and unmanageable, then the only sensible thing to do would be to end it.
If you see glimpse of hope with bits n pieces of someone’s attention, it will end up making you feel desperate and small…and,is never the recipe for a happy n healthy relationship.
Selfless friendship is a source of fond memories…”thank you for the memories”, is a beautiful book that I read once.
Benefit +Loss = Friendship Forever.
Benefit – Loss = Twinkling friendship, anytime gone!
Loss – Benefit = Get lost forever !!
So?
Here I made 3 now…can you give it a name of “syndrome”?...What??
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MIRACLE IN IVORY TOWER...
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Re:Tweety's Corner....khichuri - 2008/07/15 14:50 |
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tweety
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Peek N Seek…
“Information is Knowledge”…
Oh, not Einstein again…its me!!!!
Just back from the Kolorob forum,where I go for a Tango…but today left a ‘sword’ there.
And coming here with ‘words’!
Bcoz, I love words, the writers, and the reader…oopsss..this Reader is myself!!!
There are two kinds of readers: One understands the book he/she reads, while the other reflects a sterile mind!
So, if a book is regarded as fertile seeds for intelligent minds, shouldn’t we defy Einstein’s infertile mind (?) for his quote?
But, he is right too…bcoz, books alone are not education.
Jhumpa Lahiri strikes again…whoaaa!!! She is coming to Ireland for the most prestigious award for her short story collections…
Aha, some people are born to “Lead”!
And, here I am…born to “Read” !!
A Profound Mind Leads to Avid Reading.
A Musician always says this to a singer,’ you must understand the lyrics by heart before you actually sing it’!
It applies to the Reading too.
To understand a book,the reader must be able to grasp the author’s centre of vision,by an act of imagination.
There is a difference between ‘reading a book’, and ‘reading a page’.
Its my way to read a ‘page’,or a few sentences from any page …with a restless hyperactive mind,it’s impossible for me to start reading a book from page A to Z as a routine!
The most interesting n valuable thing that I understood…about the first Divine Order to the Prophet(SAW) to “READ (Iqra’)”!- a regnant Command to the acutely intelligent & most significant Human,who was not able to Read!
Yet God’s wish for Revealation selected Him(the prophet s.a.w)
“Readers” in Arabic is “qurra`”.
And, the Sacred Book of Islam comes from the same root-word, the “QUR`EN” !!
MIRACLE IN IVORY TOWER...
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Re:Tweety's Corner....khichuri - 2008/07/15 17:38 |
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Relationship is all about caring and sharing … ..I don’t quite agree to share only the funs and stay away from burdens and troubles …… ….I guess relationship is the most complex thing in this earth particularly when it’s not an usual one ……….. ……..relationship changes with time and environment and mostly with the changes in the state of mind ………it may be one sided or two …….hellooooo……I am not an expert nor a good writer ……but today I want to write something on long distance relationship …..why ?? I really don’t know. Someone very special always inspired me to write but I know my limitations and as such never tried such venture …….Tweety’s blog on Benefit and Loss of a Relationship…!!! makes me write this one …….
No doubt long distance relationship is challenging and difficult, but not impossible. Many people choose to give a long distance relationship a try, with the constant curiosity if it was the right decision to make and if it even stands a chance. Long Distance Relationships share the same facts as an average relationship. It involves two people who share an interest in each other’s lives, care for one another and of course have a love for each other that they hope will only continue to grow. On the other hand, a long distance relationship does have its differences as well. It takes away your ability to see each other on a frequent note, as well as the choice of being intimate whenever you desire. Being unable to spend time together in a physical presence makes it harder to hang on, especially when you know that it would never happen in your life. I never believed in such relationship until …………………anyways forget it …..
In this kind of relationship the most important thing is to make an agreement on expectations and commitments of giving and receiving. Heyyyy I am not talking about any written agreement nor do I believe on such ways …it’s an understanding which should come automatically. This is extremely important in order to prevent future misunderstandings and mistakes. One should not feel scared to spell out the need to his/her partner. One deserves the chance to speak from heart and other deserves to know the truth and judge accordingly …..
Besides, understanding each other’s problem and limitations are also equally important aspects of a long distance relationship …….and its most important when the relationship is beyond any conventional format …….if one fails to understand the limitations of the other then the relationship is at danger ….no way it can hang on …….
To my understanding …….in relationship we should always be ready to count on loss than benefits ………….if it’s so then we would never lose that ……….benefits and gains are linked with expectations and where there are expectations there are disappointment ……..someone special taught me this …….…therefore, when there are disappointments…….yo
u run the risk of a breakdown. When you run the risk of a breakdown ……you have two choices ….repair it or leave it ………relationship must not turn to be an obligation ….. …..stress in a relationship is extremely painful………so why carry on ………..but I believe terminating a relationship can also be done in a beautiful way and respectfully …….leaving no heart burnings ……..no equations of loss and benefits ……….both should be saying “ Thank you for the beautiful memories….”
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